An unplanned pregnancy can bring up a lot of thoughts and emotions. In the middle of sorting out your own feelings, it can be especially difficult if someone else is pushing you toward abortion. While it’s okay to seek support from others, knowing that no one can make this decision for you is essential.
We understand how challenging this situation can be at Next Step, and we’re here for you. Schedule a no-cost appointment today to learn how we can help you weigh your options.
Keep reading to learn several signs you may be experiencing pressure to have an abortion.
Conversations Are Steered in One Direction
Maybe you’ve tried to bring up adoption or parenting, but your thoughts are dismissed, or the subject is changed. On the other hand, if abortion comes up, the people around you may suddenly seem more open or even relieved. Over time, this dynamic can make you question your instincts.
If someone only engages when you mention a particular option, it might be a sign they’re trying to influence your decision. This pregnancy impacts your life most, and your feelings deserve to be heard without interruption or judgment.
Offers of Help Feel One-Sided
In some cases, people may offer to help with travel or costs associated with an abortion procedure. However, those same people may not offer to stand by you when it comes to other options, like parenting support or help creating an adoption plan.
Support that only exists for one outcome can often feel overwhelming. You deserve to explore every option with access to unbiased information and a listening ear, not conditions.
Emotional Pressure or Threats Arise
If someone is using fear, guilt, or threats to sway your decision, such as withholding financial help, cutting off communication, or making you feel unworthy of love, that is not support. And in some cases, this may turn into emotional or physical abuse.
Everyone deserves to feel safe, especially during an unplanned pregnancy. If you’re facing this kind of pressure, you are not alone. The National Domestic Violence Hotline is available 24/7 at 800-799-7233 for support.
You Deserve Space to Think Clearly
Sometimes the people in our lives act out of fear or confusion. However, you still have the right to take your time, ask questions, and make a confident decision.
At Next Step, our team is here to walk with you, listen to your concerns, and make sure you feel empowered to navigate this situation.
Schedule an appointment with us today. You’re stronger than you think and don’t have to face this alone.
Next Step does not provide or refer for abortions.